Relationship IQ

A 15-question check-up for your marriage, by Isaac Jemal

After twenty years of sitting with couples, I can tell you that most of them aren't missing love. They're missing a clear picture of where things really stand. So here's one.

Take five minutes. Answer each question honestly, about how your marriage feels most days, not on its best day or its worst.

Tap a number from 1 to 9 for each question.
1 = not at all  ·  5 = somewhat  ·  9 = completely

Your answers are private. Only I see them, and I never share them. If you want, ask your spouse to take it too, separately, and then compare. That conversation is worth more than the score.

15 questions left
Where should I send your results?

Your score shows right here, and I'll email you a copy.

Private. Only I see your answers. No spam.